Reid Stell Counseling
Interdependency is Shared Humanity
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Couples Counseling

Are you wondering how you can stay together, or whether you should?

Couples come to me with issues ranging from incompatibility to infidelity to anger to sex-related issues. Whatever your challenge or question, I want you to know there is hope. Together we can explore the source of your difficulties and can discover ways to transform the way you and your partner interact. Are you planning your wedding and need pre-marriage counseling? Does your relationship need a tune-up? To quote the poet Paul Éluard, "There is another world and it is this one."

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"To get the full value of joy you must have someone to divide it with."      –Mark Twain

"What counts in making a happy marriage is not so much how compatible you are, but how you deal with incompatibility."                                                                                                                                                      –Leo Tolstoy

"I got gaps. You got gaps. We fill each other's gaps."                               –Rocky Balboa

"When we are listened to, it creates us, makes us unfold and expand."
                                                                                                          –Karl Menninger

"Being heard is so close to being loved that for the average person, they are almost indistinguishable."
                                                                                                           –David Augsburger

"Ultimately the bond of all companionship, whether in marriage or in friendship, is conversation.
                                                                                                           –Oscar Wilde

"If there's one lesson I've learned in my years of research into marital relationships–having interviewed and studied more than 200 couples over 20 years–it is that a lasting marriage results from a couple's ability to resolve the conflicts that are inevitable in any relationship."
                                                                                                            –John Gottman